Partying while sober

Okay so i don't drink and i've never been one to drink.  Not saying im against it, it's just a personal choice.  But i always wonder why people don't see it my way.  For starters, when you ask someone why they actually drink, the first thing i hear is, "it loosens me up and i have more fun."  Have more fun ? oh wow.  Then i started to think and came to the conclusion that people drink to let "loose" and be themselves.  It's a tactic used so they are not getting judged by others.  But why should you care ? why does everyone care what another person who doesn't know you think about you? Are there thoughts THAT important to you, i thought to myself.. Then the word insecurity came to mind.  They are insecure with themselves.  Not to sound cocky, but im probably the most secure person around and have enough confidence for everyone in a any sized room.  Okay, so that was a little bit cocky, but do i care ? no not really.  
Trashy.  Most people, both men and women aren't "themselves" whatever that means.  They tend to do things that are out of their character.  But you know whats funny, they know and understand what they're doing, but just don't seem to care.  Which gives them a bad reputation and in turn add's drama and all this other unnecessary shit into their lives.

I had recently experienced this for the first time.  Not the getting drunk or drinking part, but dealing with a drunk person.  He tried to parkour off a damn two story wall and almost jumped.  Took the car keys out of my hand, got into his car, hit my car and sped off drunk.  It was the scariest and craziest thing I've ever seen.   It all happened so fast.  He wasn't like this at all sober.  The next day i got a text from him saying he got home safe and was sorry, but i just lost all my respect for that guy.

Lesson:  Just be yourself damn it.  Stop drinking to "have fun" and "be fun".  If i can do it, you can do it.